April 22-28

In some cultures dogs are part of daily cuisine. In some cows are worshiped. What would other cultures look at as strange or unacceptable in our culture, food or otherwise? I think that a lot of cultures think that we are frivolous.  For those who don't know what that means it basically is something that doesn't have any meaning or value. For example, in the United States many people prefer to have pets over children.  On top of that we have motels for dogs, so people are wasting money for things that aren't really necessary.  Some cultures may worship their cows but that's for their religious believes. A lot of people more than worship their pets they treat them as their own children. They talk to them, pamper and dress them, groom them, accessorize them, let them sleep in their beds,  provide them with health, dental, and medical, give them regular checkups, and most people insure them. I believe in taking care of animals but to treat them better than you treat human beings is a little over the top. But then again they tend to treat us better then a lot of human beings do.

Perhaps a better response for this topic would have been our weird obsession with prom or all the money we waste towards prom or eating out.

April 15-21

In what situations is it wise for a friend to give advice and when should they just listen? Listening is always a safe choice and you never know if you need to give advice until after you have listened to and understand the situation. The first thing you need to decide is if they need or want advice after they have talked it though and after you have listened to all they have to say. You also need to decide if you have any knowledge or experience that would make you qualified to give them advice.  If you don’t have any knowledge or experience then it would not be wise to give them any advice. If they come to you asking you for your thought and advice you need to always make sure they understand that the decision is there’s before giving advice. Telling someone what to do can back fire if they follow your advice and it turns out bad. So it is always wise to try and give them different options and talk about different consequences both positive and negative. In the end we all need a friend to listen to us and listening is usually all that is needed. So we should give advice sparingly.

Research Paper

Jamie Johnson

Mr. Gowans

Language Arts

April 4th

In the Book by Oscar Wilde “The Importance of being Earnest,” The author writes about being earnest as a trait while referring to an individual named Earnest who in fact doesn’t actually exist. He apparently thinks that the people who feel like earnestness is such an admirable trait are naive and making a big deal about something that in reality doesn’t exist to the extent they pretend it does and is an overrated title.

Cecily and Gwendolen are in love with the name Ernest. “Cecily: You must not laugh at me, darling, but it had always been a girlish dream of mine to love someone whose name was Ernest. There is something in that name that seems to inspire absolute confidence. I pity any poor married woman whose husband is not called Ernest.”(Wilde, 67-68) Just like Gwendolen, Cecily admits that marrying a man with the name Ernest was a girlish dream. Is Earnestness such an admirable trait that they want to marry someone named Ernest and only Ernest? Most people only look at the good of the trait earnestness but with every good comes bad. Although there are good things about being earnest there can also be bad.

 Is being earnest an admirable trait? At dictionary.com, earnestness is defined as “serious in intention, purpose, or effort; showing depth and sincerity of feeling.” (Earnestness)There are some ups and downs to being earnest as there is to most traits. For one, to have someone who is serious in their intents, purpose and efforts would be nice but if they are too serious in their work they would never be home or if their intents or purpose wasn’t good then that wouldn’t be an admirable trait. For example, a criminal may be earnest in getting rich as opposed to a legitimate hard working individual. So it isn’t so much whether you are “serious in intention, purpose, or effort; showing depth and sincerity of feeling” but the direction taken because of one’s earnestness.

A lot of people confuse seriousness and earnestness. Although the synonym words for seriousness is earnestness and sincerity that doesn't mean they are the same thing. “Synonyms are words that have a related meaning to another word or a similar word.”(Examples) There are many similarities in seriousness and earnestness but there are differences as well. We are all familiar with taking something serious, meaning we recognize that it is something significant or of importance while being earnest is more of showing an intense effort in doing or accomplishing something. So to take something serious does not necessarily mean you are being earnest. Seriousness and earnestness are very similar but you can be serious without being earnest and you can be earnest without being serious.

 Earnestness may be an admirable trait but that does not mean you have to marry a person with the name Ernest, even though they may be earnest. From the book one gets the impression that Mr. Wilde thinks titles are very over rated.  Whether or not earnestness is an admirable trait or not it’s all based on your opinion. Serious people may be earnest but it’s not always the case and giving someone the title of being earnest will not make them such.

Work Cited

“Earnestness.” Easton’s 1897 Bible Dictionary. 8 April. 2013. Web. 10 April 2013.   <http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/earnestness>.

"Examples of Synonyms." YourDictionary. LoveToKnow, n.d. Web. 4 April 2013. Web. 12 April 2013 <http://examples.yourdictionary.com/examples-of-synonyms.html>.

Wilde, Oscar. The Importance of Being Earnest: August 2009. New York: Simon & Schuster Paperbacks, 2009. Print.

April 8-14

You have been struggling financially your whole life. You just won a million dollar lottery. Do you give any to charity? I recognize that charities are a good thing but I have some concerns. I have an uncle that is a fire man. I have listened to him talk to my parents about how people are scamming others in the name of firefighters after the 9/11 tragedy. He described how they call for donations to help families of injured firefighters but the charity gives less than ten percent of contributions to the firefighter’s families. The rest they keep for operating costs, to pay themselves for their time and expenses of running the charity. He told my parents if they call you don’t donate to them.  For that reason I would think twice before giving my money to any charity. I would gladly help out family and friends because I would know my money wouldn't be wasted or given to people that don't necessarily need it. I know I would give ten percent of my money to charity because of my religious beliefs.   Beyond family and my church I would have to do some research before I would want to donate to a charity.

April 2-7

If someone you loved was seriously injured or killed by a texting driver, would that stop you from ever texting while driving? We hear stories all the time of people getting injured or killed from texting and driving and from what I see it hasn't stopped anyone from texting and driving. I think those that texts while driving will most likely always text and drive but you never know. Most people that do text and drive think they are so good at it that they will never get into a crash.  For me personally I don't like driving so I don't drive long enough to receive a text let alone text someone back.  For me it doesn’t make a difference but for those that do text and drive I hope you will think about it and put your phone down while you drive. I hope nobody will get seriously injured or killed but if it does happen I hope it would stop you from texting and driving. From all the crashes that have happened from texting I hope you have already learned and don’t text and drive.  I am sure it won’t kill you to wait to text as it might kill you if you don’t wait.